Don’t you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? Can’t you see that his kindness is intended to turn you from your sin?( Romans 2:4 )
No one ever wants to be told they are living in sin. Nor do people want to feel condemned. It’s a fine line on how to handle sin in others’ lives. We can choose to follow God’s leading in the same way He has treated us, that is, with patience and kindness. The greatest influence we can have on other peoples’ sin is through leading by a humble example.